What I've Learned About Fighting A Corrupt GAL

What I’ve Learned About Fighting a Corrupt GAL

For those of you stuck dealing with a corrupt “family” court “guardian” ad litem, let me say this as clearly as I can:

Your kids know you.

They know you better than some money-hungry imposter who claims to “speak for them” and act in their “best interests.”

I’d say “at heart,” but let’s be honest, most of these people don’t seem to have one.

I’ve witnessed this system. I’ve seen the games. The lies. The bias. The coercion. The way truth gets twisted until it’s unrecognizable.

And here’s what I’ve learned: no matter how many orders get signed, no matter how many courtrooms you’re dragged through, no matter how many forced “therapy” sessions they push… your child knows.

They can feel it, even though they are afraid to show it, even with those closest to them.

A GAL might pretend to be their “voice.” But your voice has lived in your child’s heart since the day they were born. That doesn’t vanish. It can be buried, it can be confused, it can be manipulated, often by a parent, but never erased by a GAL.

Our job is to remind our kids they owe these imposters no loyalty. To empower them to recognize who truly has their back.

You won’t “win” by out-talking a corrupt GAL. You “win” by outlasting them. To show your child you are steady, reliable, unmovable in your love. That you can see through the lies, and you’re not afraid to call them what they are.

And then we sue, them because in my book there’s no such thing as immunity, and I don’t take no for an answer.

-Nicole Anderson and yes please add this to your GAL report.