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Therapy-Speak, Alienation, or a Field Guide to Hidden Control?
In today’s custody culture, one of the most dangerous tools in the alienator’s toolkit isn’t yelling or overt threats, it’s language....
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Call It Whatever You Want, The Outcome Is the Same
Call It Whatever You Want, The Outcome Is the Same Parental alienation. Coercive control. Domestic abuse by proxy. Pathogenic parenting....
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The Truth About “Disneyland Dads”
The Truth About “Disneyland Dads” Why every weekend is magical, when you only get four a month. “Disneyland Dad.” It’s a phrase used to...
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The Transactional Child, “If I see you this weekend, what do I get?” The child learns love is a currency.
The Transactional Child “If I see you this weekend, what do I get?” The child learns love is a currency. He’s just a kid. Piggy bank in...
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Age by Age and Stage by Stage, the Breakdown of the Alienated Child.
“Shaped by Survival: The Alienated Child at Every Stage” How Manipulation, Indulgence, and Emotional Conditioning Create Long-Term...
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Kids Don’t Hate Without Help
“My Kids Don’t Want to See Their Dads Because They Know Their Dad is a Coward Who Hurt Their Mom.” It’s a story we’ve been told over and...
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“This isn’t a messy divorce. It’s psychological warfare.”
Parental Alienation = Psychological Warfare In family courtrooms across the world, an invisible war rages on, one that rarely makes...
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There is always a safe way to maintain a child’s relationship with a parent they once knew and loved.
There is always a safe way to maintain a child’s relationship with a parent they once knew and loved. If the parent wants to be a parent,...
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How Domestically Abusive Women Continue to Harm Father-Child Relationships Post-Separation
While public discourse often focuses on male perpetrators of domestic abuse, an often-overlooked reality is the damage some women cause...
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When a Child Is “Strong”, Until It’s Time to See the Other Parent
Family courts and therapists often describe children as high-functioning, emotionally mature, and socially well-adjusted, until it comes...
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Separating children from a fit and loving parent can have detrimental effects on their emotional, psychological, and social well-being.
Research consistently demonstrates that separating children from a fit and loving parent can have detrimental effects on their emotional,...
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The study titled “Pilot Study of Parental Alienation Items in the Adverse Childhood Experiences Scale”
The study titled “Pilot Study of Parental Alienation Items in the Adverse Childhood Experiences Scale” aimed to assess the potential...
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Why Children Deserve to Know the Truth About Alienation, Age Appropriately
One of the most painful aspects of parental alienation is the silence it forces. Targeted parents are often told by therapists, GALs, and...
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Regret of Lost Time: What Parental Alienation Steals From Us
Regret is a heavy burden to carry. It lingers in the quiet moments, in the “what ifs” and the “if onlys,” reminding us of time that can...
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How Court-Appointed Counselors and GALs Strip Parents of Their Authority and Damage the Parent-Child Bond
In cases of parental alienation, court-appointed Guardians ad Litem (GALs) and counselors are often presented as neutral professionals...
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Weaponizing Hardship: How Family Courts Use the Same Coercion Tactics as Dr. Fauci’s “Make Life Difficult” Mentality
In a recently unearthed statement, Dr. Anthony Fauci advocated for making life so difficult for people that they would ultimately comply...
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Reunification Therapy: The Battle to Undo Lies, Not Reunify Families
In many family court cases where parental alienation is present, “reunification therapy” is not truly about rebuilding the bond between a...
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When Co-Parenting Becomes Control
How to Recognize & Push Back Against Manipulation Disguised as Cooperation For parents struggling to maintain a relationship with their...
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Truth Does Not Mind Being Questioned. A Lie Does Not Like Being Challenged
In the realm of high-conflict custody disputes, there exists a troubling reality, one in which truth is often buried under layers of...
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The controlling nature of an alienator
The controlling nature of an alienator is often a defining characteristic of their behavior. This control is used to manipulate the...
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