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What is Domestic Violence by Proxy

Domestic violence by proxy refers to a form of abuse where the abuser uses another person, such as a child or a third party, to carry out acts of violence or control against the victim. In this situation, the abuser manipulates or coerces someone else to engage in abusive behaviors on their behalf. This tactic is used as a means to maintain power and control over the victim while avoiding direct accountability for their actions.

When it comes to domestic violence by proxy, some common examples include:

Parental Alienation: The perpetrator may manipulate the children against the victim, poisoning their minds and turning them against the victim. This can involve verbally demeaning the victim, making false accusations, or painting a negative picture of the victim to the children.

Forced Surveillance: The abuser may coerce a family member or friend to spy on and monitor the victim's activities, report back to them, or gather information that can be used against the victim.

Harassment Through Intermediaries: The abuser may use intermediaries, such as friends or family members, to harass, threaten, or intimidate the victim on their behalf. This could involve unwanted phone calls, messages, or visits intended to instill fear and control.

Physical Violence: In some cases, the abuser may use a third party to physically harm the victim. This can include hiring someone to assault or intimidate the victim or coercing a family member to engage in violent acts.

Legal Manipulation: The abuser may manipulate the legal system by filing false reports or making baseless accusations against the victim. They may also pressure or coerce others, such as lawyers or law enforcement, to act against the victim's interests.

It's important to recognize domestic violence by proxy as a serious form of abuse.

If you or someone you know is experiencing this kind of abuse, it's crucial to seek help and support from trusted professionals, such as domestic violence helplines or organizations.



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